گندے میسج کس طرح صحت کو تباہ کرتے ہیں

 سمارٹ فون، لیپ ٹاپ اور دیگر آن لائن آلات آج کے دوران میں بہت ہی سہولت سمجھی جاتی ہیں اور ہر دوسرے شخص کے پاس یہ تمام آلات موجود ہوتے ہیں لیکن جیسا کہ کہا جاتا ہے کہ ہر شے کے فوائد اور نقصانات ہوتے ہیں۔ اگر ان آلات کا استعمال رابطے میں رہنے کے لئے کیاجائ

برطانوی یونیورسٹی نے حال ہی میں اس پر تحقیق کی ہے اور اس کے نتائج نے مغربی معاشرے کو جھنجھوڑ کررکھ دیا ہے۔ تحقیق کے مطابق نوجوان لڑکے اور لڑکیاں غیر اخلاقی میسج اور تصاویر شیئر کرتے ہیں تو ان کی دماغی صحت پر انتہائی خطرناک اثرات ہوتے ہیں۔ وہ اپنے خاندانوں اور دوستوں سے دور ہوتے جاتے ہیں اور ان کی شخصیت میں منفی خیالات حد سے زیادہ ہوجاتے ہیں جبکہ معاشرے میں ایک ایسا اخلاقی بگاڑ آتا ہے جو کہ مستقبل قریب میں تمام انسانوں کے لئے انتہائی خطرناک ثابت ہوں گے۔ مزید برآں جو نوجوان لڑکے اور لڑکیاں یہ تصاویر ایک دوسرے سے شیئر کرتے ہیں تو اکثر یہ احتمال ہوتا ہے کہ یہ تصاویر اکثر سماج دشمن گروہ مذموم مقصد کے لئے استعمال کرتے ہیں۔ تحقیق میں بتایا گیا ہے کہ گندے میسج کی وجہ سے نوجوان خود لذتی کا شکار ہوتے جاتے ہیں اور نتیجے کے طور پر ان کی جنسی زندگی تباہ ہونا شروع ہوجاتی ہے۔ جبکہ ذہنی طور پر یہ لوگ معاشرے میں ناصرف تنہائی کا شکار ہوجاتے ہیں بلکہ وہ ایک مثبت کردار ادا کرنے میں بھی ناکام ہوجاتے ہیں۔ تحقیق کاروں کا کہنا ہے کہ اگر موجودہ نسل کو اس طرح کی مکروہ حرکات سے نہ روکا گیا تو آنے والے دور میں معاشرہ مکمل تباہی کا شکار ہوسکتا ہے۔

ے تو یہ ایک اچھی بات ہے لیکن اگر ان آلات کو شیطانی خواہشات کی تکمیل اور جنسی لذت کے حصول میں ضائع کیا جائے تو ناصرف مالی طور پر نقصانات ہوتے ہیں بلکہ اس کے صحت پر انتہائی خطرناک اثرات بھی ہوتے ہیں۔

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THE HIDDEN DANGERS OF MODERN TECHNOLOGY: YOU & YOUR CHILD

While technology has forever changed the way we live our lives, it has also brought our children dangerously close to the monsters lurking within the TV and the internet, mobile communication and gaming. Children are vulnerable. It is up to parents to protect children and their innocence. So ask yourself: Am I, as a parent, prepared? Am I aware of the dangers my child is exposed to? Am I guiding my child properly?

It will no longer do to brush subjects like obscenity and indecency and pornography under the carpet. It will no longer do to shout, scold, hit or punish your child if you find them being curious about subjects considered taboo. It’s unreasonable to clamp out TV or Internet or society out of their lives. It’ll only fuel a child’s fascination and curiosity and worse, they will go ahead and experiment behind your back.

Currently, Pakistani children are victims of rigid social frameworks where definite do’s and don’ts are imposed without explanation and where every instinct is taboo on one hand, while unregulated commercialism shamelessly laughs in the face of social norms and traditions on the other.

We indulge children with access to unrestricted TV viewing, unmonitored internet surfing, access to personal mobile phones, web cameras and the like. Unabashed advertising and commercialism entice children into grounds that eventually lead to harm .Over the years, with the onslaught of cheaply available commercial services the potential for abuse has also grown, up to the point where it can now no longer be ignored. The truth is our traditions are becoming more and more fragile. It is time to act now, time to do our part.

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PORNOGRAPHY-- Can we avoid it?

Behind every dirty picture, behind every half-exposed magazine is a home destroyed. It looks so innocent. She is half dressed. And behind every picture there is a home destroyed. Behind every picture there is a child without a family. Behind every picture there is a man in prison, Behind every picture there is a marriage torn apart. Behind every “innocent” picture you see on a magazine rack, there is a victim. Behind every picture there is a demented mind. There is a boy who is never going to be a man, a father. There is a girl who will never be a mother or a lady. Behind every picture there is a suicide. Behind every picture there is a drug addict. Porn is a hot log that is slowly burning its way across Pakistan!!

I want to give you some reasons why you shouldn’t look at pornography. Number one, the society you live in. Physical violence is produced by pornography. You look at our society and want to know what’s wrong? Why is everyone so violent? Why is everyone so cruel? Why all the atrocities, butchering and slaughtering? We pick up the newspaper, and read that a woman in a resort area had her head cut off. And you wonder where is all this coming from? It is coming from pornography.

A man assaults a young girl, abused her life, abused her death, chewed on her body, because he had been looking at porn since he was six years old. If you are not going to blame the drugs, nor the television, you better blame porn for the violence. Nine million people a day click on the Internet for porn. Listen to me. Nine million people a day click on the Internet for porn. Five million of them are men. Fifty percent of them get hooked. Fifty percent of them are married. Cable and the net have poured porn into these homes, into these hearts, into these lives, and I tell you, the next millennium is going to produce a society of millions of these who sit and look at violence, so that they have to go kill someone. You don’t understand it, but you get into it, you have to hurt someone. It unlocks such passion, it unlocks such wickedness in the heart of man that he never knew was there.

Porn is the preparation, motivation and instruction for violent atrocities.
Porn is after every individual. It is after every position in society. It doesn’t play any favorites. It plays with the rich. It plays with the poor. It plays with everyone. It is after every male and every female, young and old. It doesn’t make any difference to porn.

Listen, porn isn’t scared of you. It isn’t scared of your Masjid. It is not scared of your children. And it is not scared of your friends. It is louder and more violent than I am. I couldn’t get as mean as porn.

Porn freaks surf the Internet, they live in the chat rooms. They come through the chat rooms, boasting and lying and deceiving, looking for victims, just to satisfy their lust and please their passions. That is all they do. They live in those chat rooms, like a spider weaving a web, waiting for an innocent insect to fly into it. Then they walk outside, wrap that web around and around, until they can’t move. They stuck the blood out of the victim and leave an innocent shell. That is exactly what they do. They sit there, days and nights, filling their minds and hearts with the most filth that comes out of Hell. Then they go looking for you. You wouldn’t believe how many cars are patrolling your own neighborhood, just looking for innocent victims. And you think you can handle it all, but you can’t.

There is no escaping it. You are going to have to fight it every day for the rest of your life. It isn’t going away. It wants everything you have. And without the grace of Almighty Allah and the Word of Almighty Allah , we haven’t a hope. We better feel the fear of it, because it doesn’t fear us.

Fahad Ahmad Siddiqi
Advocate High Court

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